My Friends

Time Out - my friends

Where would I be without my friends? Lonely… My life would suck without them. Who would explain to me what happened the night before? The scratches on my arms, dents in my car, and the questionable stain on my blouse. I would look in the mirror and see smile lines that meant nothing as they wouldn’t be attached to any memories. My friends have my front and my back. It brings tears to my eyes when I reflect on their loyalty. Even when I don’t listen to their advice and swear they never told me; they don’t bat an eye. I am an only child so it is no secret that some of my best times have been spent alone, but the most fulfilling have been with my friends. They validate my existence and I am nothing without them. They give meaning to my walk and truth to my words. My relationship with each one of them is different yet they all get me the same. Whether we’re BFF’s or just recently met – I love you all!!

        “A girl who has friends is every lonely girl’s biggest enemy.”

- Gillian Alex


  1. OMG I am an only child too! I can totally relate to this..

  2. I am pleased to know MY NAME is on your FRIEND list! I smile when I see your name at the bottom “Gillian Alex” WOW………… this BLOG is amazing! I LOVE YOU G!

  3. Wow- what a terrific post. I cherish my friends too.


  5. This a great piece expect you left out all of your friends that talk about you behind your back, sleep with your man and borrow money and never pay it back.

    • Ms. Keisha,

      I don’t think that she left that out. Obviously the people that you described are not “Friends” and when Ms. Alex composes a blog entry about F.A.F’s (FAKE ASS FRIENDS), then you can comment on that. I understand your pain though..we have all had those, but take a moment and celebrate the people or person in your life that are the opposite of your description.

      Much love,

      • Treat others how you want to be tretaed. It’s one of the best ways of showing respect. If you don’t treat others how you want to be tretaed, then they will treat you the way you don’t want to be tretaed or just walk away.

  6. I adore my friends as well, especially the very close ride and die ones. There are just a handful, but loyalty is #1 and I am thankful to have them in my life.

  7. You don’t have to talk to true friends every day. There can be a lapse in time and just like riding a bike…you pick up where you left off. The older I get, the more appreciative I am that God decided to bless me with tried and true friends. I love you G!

  8. I’m glad to know that I’m on your friends that ” i just met list” (smile) Thanks for all of your support Gillian.

  9. As of last year , everything single friend of mine had let me down in some way and because of that I made the decisions to go after Quality instead of Quantity in regards to friendships and relationships . I learned the hard way that it when it comes to friendships and relationships, it’s not about how many its about are the healthy and are both parties walking away with something and being supported by one another.

    • I guess finding useful, relailbe information on the internet isn’t hopeless after all.

  10. I too would be lonely without my friends. We rely on our friends for support and advice. They are an important part of my life.

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  27. Friendships are so important especially as women need a support system. I have friends that I’ve known for several years and those that I’ve just recently met.

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  29. I too cherish my friendship as must often they define us.

  30. Having girlfriends that you can depend is very important and I too am very lucky to have good women in my life.

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