seX marks the spot
Time Out - seX marks the spot
Earlier today I read an article that said women in their 30’s and 40′s are more likely to have sex on the first date than women in their 20’s. As I put the newspaper down, I smiled to myself and thought, “No Shit Sherlock” – because it is a monumental feeling when you realize that you made that transition. The transition from your silly 20’s to your kinda – smart – 30’s. What makes it amazing is that – seemingly out of nowhere – the doors to being a grown lady magically open up and you somehow become a Certified Big Girl. This transition doesn’t make you a sex fiend, but it helps you stay focused on his bank account while simultaneously focusing on his dick. In your long check list of must haves for you perfect guy, you squeeze in three more questions at the very end:
# 1: Is his dick big?
#2: Is he a good lover?
#3: How fast can he make me cum?
You just reach a point in your life where you learn to accept the fact that a good fuck is a good fuck and sometimes you just need it. Good sex is amazing. If it’s really good, it makes you run back and tell your friends all of the sordid details. It can leave you in a state of pure bliss that has you fantasizing when you lay down at night. It can be so damn good that during the day you catch yourself walking down the street and smiling. You want to grin ear to ear, but you have to keep it controlled, because while everyone is passing you by, they have no idea that your pussy is tingling.
There is nothing like a man who is sexy and sensual. One who is a caring lover and can easily put you in a world of ecstasy to the point where your breath is taken away. He leaves you panting, with your heart pumping. Yes, that is the man of your dreams. Your Mr. – Thank -You for- Putting -a -Smile -on -My -Face -Today. We all need to experience this guy at some point in our life.
Good sex is hard to come by because most men suck – in bed. Most are not good lovers. Most have no idea what it takes to make a women get off. Most are subpar at best. Let’s face it, it takes more than kissing and pumping to turn women on. A woman needs it all: kissing, sucking, massaging, licking. We need passion and once that clicks in our heads, we never, ever lay down with a man without making sure we reach an orgasm.
Making love and not cumming is only something you do in your twenties. Alas, in your 30’s you may still have fucked up credit, but don’t have fucked up sex.
I’m walking up the stairs to my apartment and thumbing through my mail. My Neiman Marcus bill came and as I tear it open I smile because last night, I did too.?