Time Out Again

Time Out - time out again

This month my emotions have been all over the place. I’m not sure which way is up. My feet are planted firmly on the ground, but my heart is racing. I am surrounded by good men and enviable catches, but right now I’m feeling like I don’t want to fish. I’m so in tune with me at this point in my life, that boys don’t even matter right now. Well, they DO, but they don’t. I am not male-bashing by any means, but I’m a GIRL who is SCREAMING to other girls that we must think about ourselves first and others second. Specifically, BOYS second. Not because we don’t need companionship, but because we must learn to live with ourselves before we can live with—hell, even truly understand—someone else.

        I’m a very lucky girl. I have had great guys in my life. But the older I get, the more I realize that my greatness, my happiness, starts and ends with me. And although I want a guy, and I want companionship, knowing me is what is most important.

        I’m not a magician, nor am I an angel, so what is to come is still a mystery. I have dark days. I have moments, even hours of true despair, but I realize that I am within arms reach of happiness. So I keep my head held high.

        Ladies: Keep your eye on the prize, whatever that is for you. And I promise to do the same for me.


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